Finding your authentic self and focusing on healing is by no means an easy feat.
I lived in a dark closet for many years, thinking this would be my reality for the rest of my life, I am glad it was not.
The moment we accept who we are, life become multicoloured and vivid. Possibilities become endless and you stop giving so much weight and power to what the world thinks of you .
What really matters is YOU.
I want you to see the the importance of being true to who you are. Let me illuminate your path. Let's talk about HEALING and SOUL CARE.
I am a light giver and we can walk together in this healing journey.
Let's chat about how we can work together!!!
I’m here to support you and help you shine your light.
About me
My name is Dakshima Dilipani Haputhanthri. I am a Reiki Master and a Social Worker.
I started Dilipani after coming out because I wanted to share my journey with the world. I advocate for and aim to normalize conversations about vulnerability and the importance of mental health. I have had the privilege of being a keynote speaker, panelist, and invited speaker at many national, provincial, and municipal institutions, as well as non-profit organizations.
My beloved grandma’s passing in August 2025 shattered something inside me. Her absence wasn’t just a loss—it was a silence, a heaviness, a space in my life that nothing seemed able to fill. As I slowly stepped into my healing journey, all I wanted was to feel closer to her again, to hold onto the love she left behind.
Becoming a Reiki Master became a lifeline, a way to reconnect with her spirit and with myself. It carried me through the darkest moments, and now, with her memory guiding me, I feel ready to step into the next chapter of my life

Are you curious about the name Dilipani?
Dilipani means “a lighted lamp.” It also happens to be my middle name. I was drawn to Dilipani when choosing a name for my services, because I see myself as a guiding light, or a lighted lamp for you.
I’m here to help guide you to learn, accept and love yourself as you are. I have been through this journey and come out the other side, stronger, wiser and filled with gratitude.
Together we are changing the world!
Dilipani in the media
Podcast
Burst The Conventional Bubble | Ft. Dakshima Dilipani Ep. 023 - My Thick Accent with Gurasis Singh
Radio Interviews
Calgary social worker offering counseling and support to South Asians who are ready to come out as gay to their families.
Shine your light with Dakshima Haputhanthri
Print Media
Finding your true self takes courage, and maybe a little help
Digital Articles
More resources needed for LGBTQ South Asians ready to come out as gay, advocate says
A guiding light and a safe haven for LGBTQ2S+ immigrants

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