Finding your authentic self is by no means an easy feat.
I lived in a dark closet for many years, thinking this would be my reality for the rest of my life, I am glad it was not.
The moment we accept who we are, life become multicoloured and vivid. Possibilities become endless and you stop giving so much weight and power to what the world thinks of you .
What really matters is YOU.
I want you to see the the importance of being true to who you are. Let me illuminate your path. Let's talk about VULNERABILITY, MENTAL HEALTH and SOUL CARE.
I am a born story teller, light giver and a poet, I promise not to bore you, for sure.
Let's chat about opportunities and how can we work together!!!
I’m here to support you and help you shine your light.
About me
My name is Dakshima Dilipani Haputhanthri. I am a Registered social worker in Alberta, Canada. I worked as an Attorney, in my home country Sri Lanka and moved to Canada in the Summer of 2016.
After coming out, creating "Dilipani" and sharing my lived experiences almost five years ago, I had the privilege to be the Key Note speaker, panelist and invited speaker in many National, Provincial and Municipal institutions and non-profit organizations such as; JCC, Distress Centre, Alberta Network of Immigrant Women and Immigrant Services Calgary. I was the former Co -Chair at the Gender and Sexual Diversity Board for Calgary Police Services and Co-Chair for Immigrant Advisory Table member at Calgary Local Immigration Partnership.
I am also a Peer Supporter and a Mentor.
After struggling for many many years to hide my true self, I now fully embrace who I am and here to normalize talking about vulnerability, importance of mental health and how to be strong and resilient.
Are you curious about the name Dilipani?
Dilipani means “a lighted lamp.” It also happens to be my middle name. I was drawn to Dilipani when choosing a name for my services, because I see myself as a guiding light, or a lighted lamp for you.
I’m here to help guide you to learn, accept and love yourself as you are. I have been through this journey and come out the other side, stronger, wiser and filled with gratitude.
Together we are changing the world!
Dilipani in the media
Podcast
Burst The Conventional Bubble | Ft. Dakshima Dilipani Ep. 023 - My Thick Accent with Gurasis Singh
Listen more podcast with Paige Crystal
EkWoman podcast with Monika Patel
Radio Interviews
Calgary social worker offering counseling and support to South Asians who are ready to come out as gay to their families.
Shine your light with Dakshima Haputhanthri
Print Media
Finding your true self takes courage, and maybe a little help
Digital Articles
More resources needed for LGBTQ South Asians ready to come out as gay, advocate says
A guiding light and a safe haven for LGBTQ2S+ immigrants

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